Comments on: Don’t read this if you’re depressed http://melliferouspants.com/2009/02/15/dont-read-this-if-youre-depressed/ Wed, 08 Sep 2010 12:18:21 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: tiffany http://melliferouspants.com/2009/02/15/dont-read-this-if-youre-depressed/#comment-8449 tiffany Mon, 16 Feb 2009 21:07:01 +0000 http://melliferouspants.wordpress.com/?p=937#comment-8449 I am thinking about you all the time and sending you all my good energy! I think acknowledging your feelings is the first step in healing, and you luckily have a supportive forum in which to do that. And, I know that Mike is being amazing. He will help you through this and you will help each other through this. Sending you so much love! xoxo I am thinking about you all the time and sending you all my good energy! I think acknowledging your feelings is the first step in healing, and you luckily have a supportive forum in which to do that. And, I know that Mike is being amazing. He will help you through this and you will help each other through this.

Sending you so much love! xoxo

]]> By: Curly Glamour Girlie http://melliferouspants.com/2009/02/15/dont-read-this-if-youre-depressed/#comment-8448 Curly Glamour Girlie Mon, 16 Feb 2009 16:57:39 +0000 http://melliferouspants.wordpress.com/?p=937#comment-8448 Pants - just dropping a line to let you know it's okay to be pissed off/sad/upset for as long as you need. And to let you know there's someone alllll the way on the east coast who's thinking of you and sending you good thoughts and love. When I was going through the chemo and we didn't even know if my female parts would work again I hated every pregnant women (real or fictitious) I came into contact with. I yelled at someone at work who whined about being pregnant and uncomfortable. It shut her up good. Pants – just dropping a line to let you know it’s okay to be pissed off/sad/upset for as long as you need. And to let you know there’s someone alllll the way on the east coast who’s thinking of you and sending you good thoughts and love.

When I was going through the chemo and we didn’t even know if my female parts would work again I hated every pregnant women (real or fictitious) I came into contact with. I yelled at someone at work who whined about being pregnant and uncomfortable. It shut her up good.

]]> By: Pants http://melliferouspants.com/2009/02/15/dont-read-this-if-youre-depressed/#comment-8447 Pants Mon, 16 Feb 2009 16:48:46 +0000 http://melliferouspants.wordpress.com/?p=937#comment-8447 Um, I think I just received my first Japanese spam! I used an online translator...thought about posting it in the comments, but I think we all know what spam sounds like. :) livelaughlove4ever, I am so sorry for your loss. aerin, Thank you. punchlinewalking, Thanks, I hope for those things as soon as possible, as well. SM, On Valentine's Day we went on a strange field trip to a sporting goods (eh, hunter's paradise) store for giggles and shit. We were both surprised and how angry we BOTH felt toward many of the people in the store...wandering around with so many kids they were literally losing track of their kids. I'm glad I have someone supportive as well, otherwise I have no idea how I would get through this. Um, I think I just received my first Japanese spam! I used an online translator…thought about posting it in the comments, but I think we all know what spam sounds like. :)

livelaughlove4ever,
I am so sorry for your loss.

aerin,
Thank you.

punchlinewalking,
Thanks, I hope for those things as soon as possible, as well.

SM,
On Valentine’s Day we went on a strange field trip to a sporting goods (eh, hunter’s paradise) store for giggles and shit. We were both surprised and how angry we BOTH felt toward many of the people in the store…wandering around with so many kids they were literally losing track of their kids. I’m glad I have someone supportive as well, otherwise I have no idea how I would get through this.

]]> By: SM http://melliferouspants.com/2009/02/15/dont-read-this-if-youre-depressed/#comment-8446 SM Mon, 16 Feb 2009 16:24:24 +0000 http://melliferouspants.wordpress.com/?p=937#comment-8446 I remember after my miscarriage, every single TV show I watched had a pregnant person or someone having a baby on it. I actually had to stop watching TV for a bit because I would get so upset. I remember watching an episode of Las Vegas where Molly Sims' character was pregnant and everyone kept calling her fat and I got so pissed off because she wasn't fat and OMFG she was pregnant and I wasn't and I wanted to be so badly and how fucked up is it that I'm getting upset about a fake pregnant person? It sucks but as another commenter stated - allow yourself to feel like you are. Be mad, scream, cry and curse as pregnant mormons (either out loud or silently - whichever you prefer). And I'm so happy that you have someone so supportive to help you through this. I remember after my miscarriage, every single TV show I watched had a pregnant person or someone having a baby on it. I actually had to stop watching TV for a bit because I would get so upset. I remember watching an episode of Las Vegas where Molly Sims’ character was pregnant and everyone kept calling her fat and I got so pissed off because she wasn’t fat and OMFG she was pregnant and I wasn’t and I wanted to be so badly and how fucked up is it that I’m getting upset about a fake pregnant person?

It sucks but as another commenter stated – allow yourself to feel like you are. Be mad, scream, cry and curse as pregnant mormons (either out loud or silently – whichever you prefer).

And I’m so happy that you have someone so supportive to help you through this.

]]> By: punchlinewalking http://melliferouspants.com/2009/02/15/dont-read-this-if-youre-depressed/#comment-8445 punchlinewalking Mon, 16 Feb 2009 15:01:55 +0000 http://melliferouspants.wordpress.com/?p=937#comment-8445 I wish I knew what the person three above said...probably exactly the right thing. Girl, I hope for you comfort and peace as soon as you can possibly have those things. I wish I knew what the person three above said…probably exactly the right thing. Girl, I hope for you comfort and peace as soon as you can possibly have those things.

]]> By: aerin http://melliferouspants.com/2009/02/15/dont-read-this-if-youre-depressed/#comment-8444 aerin Mon, 16 Feb 2009 12:55:58 +0000 http://melliferouspants.wordpress.com/?p=937#comment-8444 My thoughts are with you at this time. I second taking care of yourself - and allow yourself to feel all the emotions you're feeling. What you're going through is really hard and takes a lot of time. Treat yourself to a spa or vacation to Vegas (a decidedly non - child friendly place). My thoughts are with you at this time. I second taking care of yourself – and allow yourself to feel all the emotions you’re feeling. What you’re going through is really hard and takes a lot of time. Treat yourself to a spa or vacation to Vegas (a decidedly non – child friendly place).

]]> By: livelaughlove4ever http://melliferouspants.com/2009/02/15/dont-read-this-if-youre-depressed/#comment-8443 livelaughlove4ever Mon, 16 Feb 2009 12:37:41 +0000 http://melliferouspants.wordpress.com/?p=937#comment-8443 I know your pain. We just lost our baby 2-14-09 @ 11 weeks along. I know your pain. We just lost our baby 2-14-09 @ 11 weeks along.

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]]> By: Pants http://melliferouspants.com/2009/02/15/dont-read-this-if-youre-depressed/#comment-8441 Pants Mon, 16 Feb 2009 04:10:17 +0000 http://melliferouspants.wordpress.com/?p=937#comment-8441 Sarah, Not fair at all...but glad I have an excellent set of support between Mike, family and friends. At least we're not in this alone. Sarah,
Not fair at all…but glad I have an excellent set of support between Mike, family and friends. At least we’re not in this alone.

]]> By: Pants http://melliferouspants.com/2009/02/15/dont-read-this-if-youre-depressed/#comment-8440 Pants Mon, 16 Feb 2009 04:08:38 +0000 http://melliferouspants.wordpress.com/?p=937#comment-8440 Thank you for your kind words. I feel very lucky to have found my perfect match. There is no way I could make it through this without his love and support. Seriously, he deserves a fucking medal. <3 Thank you for your kind words. I feel very lucky to have found my perfect match. There is no way I could make it through this without his love and support. Seriously, he deserves a fucking medal. <3

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