Comments on: I thought not knowing was the worst, I was wrong http://melliferouspants.com/2009/02/12/i-thought-not-knowing-was-the-worst-i-was-wrong/ Thu, 02 Sep 2010 01:10:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Pig-Pen Brain | Pants, pants, PANTS! http://melliferouspants.com/2009/02/12/i-thought-not-knowing-was-the-worst-i-was-wrong/#comment-8805 Pig-Pen Brain | Pants, pants, PANTS! Fri, 08 May 2009 15:34:29 +0000 http://melliferouspants.wordpress.com/?p=930#comment-8805 [...] back on the past three months it’s no wonder I’ve been depressed. We’ve had a lot to get through but I’m [...] [...] back on the past three months it’s no wonder I’ve been depressed. We’ve had a lot to get through but I’m [...]

]]> By: This Place is a Prison | Pants, pants, PANTS! http://melliferouspants.com/2009/02/12/i-thought-not-knowing-was-the-worst-i-was-wrong/#comment-8651 This Place is a Prison | Pants, pants, PANTS! Fri, 01 May 2009 15:37:49 +0000 http://melliferouspants.wordpress.com/?p=930#comment-8651 [...] their significant others is a bloody nightmare. Sitting in the same room where we waited to hear what came next after seeing our still baby inside of me, is fucking rough. The room was packed and I sandwiched [...] [...] their significant others is a bloody nightmare. Sitting in the same room where we waited to hear what came next after seeing our still baby inside of me, is fucking rough. The room was packed and I sandwiched [...]

]]> By: tori http://melliferouspants.com/2009/02/12/i-thought-not-knowing-was-the-worst-i-was-wrong/#comment-8436 tori Fri, 27 Feb 2009 14:15:05 +0000 http://melliferouspants.wordpress.com/?p=930#comment-8436 I am just now catching up and I am so sorry I missed this. If there is anything I can do, please let me know. And I know my words are stupid and probably piss you off because nothing I can say or do would make anything better so just know I am thinking of you and I mean well. I am just now catching up and I am so sorry I missed this. If there is anything I can do, please let me know. And I know my words are stupid and probably piss you off because nothing I can say or do would make anything better so just know I am thinking of you and I mean well.

]]> By: Sterkworks http://melliferouspants.com/2009/02/12/i-thought-not-knowing-was-the-worst-i-was-wrong/#comment-8435 Sterkworks Thu, 26 Feb 2009 03:46:23 +0000 http://melliferouspants.wordpress.com/?p=930#comment-8435 So very sorry. XOXOX. So very sorry. XOXOX.

]]> By: Stephanie http://melliferouspants.com/2009/02/12/i-thought-not-knowing-was-the-worst-i-was-wrong/#comment-8434 Stephanie Fri, 20 Feb 2009 15:28:43 +0000 http://melliferouspants.wordpress.com/?p=930#comment-8434 Love you forever and forever. Love you forever and forever.

]]> By: Candace http://melliferouspants.com/2009/02/12/i-thought-not-knowing-was-the-worst-i-was-wrong/#comment-8433 Candace Mon, 16 Feb 2009 14:20:00 +0000 http://melliferouspants.wordpress.com/?p=930#comment-8433 Maddie, I am so very sorry. You're such a beautiful person and one day you WILL make a perfect mom. Maddie, I am so very sorry. You’re such a beautiful person and one day you WILL make a perfect mom.

]]> By: livelaughlove4ever http://melliferouspants.com/2009/02/12/i-thought-not-knowing-was-the-worst-i-was-wrong/#comment-8432 livelaughlove4ever Mon, 16 Feb 2009 12:42:20 +0000 http://melliferouspants.wordpress.com/?p=930#comment-8432 Our situation was similar to yours. I was 11 weeks along. Our baby had died at 8weeks. For 3 weeks I carried my baby not knowing he was no longer alive. We went for the U/S expecting to see a bouncing little baby. Why would we expcet anything else right? Then the doc said "I'm sorry, the baby has no heart beat." Shock...no way I didn't hear that...no he's wrong...keep looking!!! We had a D&C on 2-14-09 and named our baby Job Andrew. Our situation was similar to yours. I was 11 weeks along. Our baby had died at 8weeks. For 3 weeks I carried my baby not knowing he was no longer alive. We went for the U/S expecting to see a bouncing little baby. Why would we expcet anything else right? Then the doc said “I’m sorry, the baby has no heart beat.” Shock…no way I didn’t hear that…no he’s wrong…keep looking!!! We had a D&C on 2-14-09 and named our baby Job Andrew.

]]> By: Stefanie http://melliferouspants.com/2009/02/12/i-thought-not-knowing-was-the-worst-i-was-wrong/#comment-8431 Stefanie Mon, 16 Feb 2009 03:59:25 +0000 http://melliferouspants.wordpress.com/?p=930#comment-8431 My jaw is still dropping over the fact that you were pregnant (as obviously I had no idea)... This news on top of that? Wow. I'm so sorry you're going through this. (And I'm Internet-hugging you, for whatever that's worth.) My jaw is still dropping over the fact that you were pregnant (as obviously I had no idea)… This news on top of that? Wow. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. (And I’m Internet-hugging you, for whatever that’s worth.)

]]> By: Lisa http://melliferouspants.com/2009/02/12/i-thought-not-knowing-was-the-worst-i-was-wrong/#comment-8430 Lisa Sat, 14 Feb 2009 18:51:43 +0000 http://melliferouspants.wordpress.com/?p=930#comment-8430 I'm so sorry for your loss. I’m so sorry for your loss.

]]> By: ubermilf http://melliferouspants.com/2009/02/12/i-thought-not-knowing-was-the-worst-i-was-wrong/#comment-8429 ubermilf Sat, 14 Feb 2009 15:58:52 +0000 http://melliferouspants.wordpress.com/?p=930#comment-8429 There is no "why," no one to blame. You didn't do anything wrong. You just have a terrible loss to deal with while your hormones and body are wreaking havoc at the same time. And outsiders expect life to go on as normal. It's a frightening, painful and surreal time for you. I'm so sorry. You will weather the storm, but that doesn't make what you're going through now any easier. There is no “why,” no one to blame.

You didn’t do anything wrong. You just have a terrible loss to deal with while your hormones and body are wreaking havoc at the same time. And outsiders expect life to go on as normal. It’s a frightening, painful and surreal time for you. I’m so sorry.

You will weather the storm, but that doesn’t make what you’re going through now any easier.

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